It is useless to talk to some one who doesn't listen
or to some one who listens but doesn't understand
or to some one who understands but doesn't react
Some people work to reach others' expectations , Some work to reach their expectations . So one should decide on which category they want to belong to .
If you live for others there is no end, you will not be thinking of yourself even on your deathbed . If you live for your happiness then again there is this danger of becoming selfish. But who said there is no brighter side.
When you live for others , you may bring happiness to their lives and when you think of reaching your own expectations , your get closer to your inner self which is rather important too .
But who said there can't be a balance ?
Satisfaction and Gratitude for what you have will only make you eligible for better.
This line is going to be famous . A friend told me . By the way this is my line. I am not asking for a copyright here . That's not my nature. If this line could make a positive difference in any body's life then I think it is worth being its owner .
People humiliate you , but if you grow out of that , they envy you . They may wait for a chance to humiliate you again. That is their life , a life cycle , envying , humiliating and in between waiting to this or that . If you want to be like them , then think about them or feel bad for what they do you. Otherwise move on . Think beyond winning and losing . Think beyond ups and downs . If you can do that , you may not feel like a simple pendulum but you may enjoy your life's journey as much as you enjoy roller-coaster.
The world is like a big amusement park , the kind of life you choose to live is like the kind of amusement you wish to have . Success or failure should be just as similar to winning or loosing in an game at an amusement park . No matter you win or loose , when you leave an amusement park , you have a happy mind.
It is better to be a happy and contend person with average rate of success in life than a sad , highly successful, always restless soul.
One should decide when to listen and when not to . One can't close ears , but one can close mind . That is a hard thing to practice . But an useful thing . It will save your life.
I know its easy to say . But don't I know it is always better to practice and say ? ? Believe me I do.
or to some one who listens but doesn't understand
or to some one who understands but doesn't react
Some people work to reach others' expectations , Some work to reach their expectations . So one should decide on which category they want to belong to .
If you live for others there is no end, you will not be thinking of yourself even on your deathbed . If you live for your happiness then again there is this danger of becoming selfish. But who said there is no brighter side.
When you live for others , you may bring happiness to their lives and when you think of reaching your own expectations , your get closer to your inner self which is rather important too .
But who said there can't be a balance ?
Satisfaction and Gratitude for what you have will only make you eligible for better.
This line is going to be famous . A friend told me . By the way this is my line. I am not asking for a copyright here . That's not my nature. If this line could make a positive difference in any body's life then I think it is worth being its owner .
People humiliate you , but if you grow out of that , they envy you . They may wait for a chance to humiliate you again. That is their life , a life cycle , envying , humiliating and in between waiting to this or that . If you want to be like them , then think about them or feel bad for what they do you. Otherwise move on . Think beyond winning and losing . Think beyond ups and downs . If you can do that , you may not feel like a simple pendulum but you may enjoy your life's journey as much as you enjoy roller-coaster.
The world is like a big amusement park , the kind of life you choose to live is like the kind of amusement you wish to have . Success or failure should be just as similar to winning or loosing in an game at an amusement park . No matter you win or loose , when you leave an amusement park , you have a happy mind.
It is better to be a happy and contend person with average rate of success in life than a sad , highly successful, always restless soul.
One should decide when to listen and when not to . One can't close ears , but one can close mind . That is a hard thing to practice . But an useful thing . It will save your life.
I know its easy to say . But don't I know it is always better to practice and say ? ? Believe me I do.
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